Adult abuse after divorce

I thought I might write about my mothers partner and how much of an asshole he is. I had no idea that my mother would fall for such a low life, cheater, woman abuser and anti English.

I first met my mothers boyfriend when my parents were still married. For some reason she wanted me to meet him but without letting my father knowing. I met him, he said hello to me and then my mother and him conversed this whole afternoon in Welsh. I was looking at her body language and I could tell she was flirting with him and he was flirting with her back. I was shocked. We arrived home and my mother shut the door and kept asking me strange questions like 'what do you think of him''is he better than your father'? I was thinking what he hell is going on!!!???

The following evening my dad woke me up in the early hours and told me my mother had been cheating on him. I replied to him saying that I had met him and I knew something was going on. He said I had to disguise the fact I knew for a week. My mother is very clever... she found out the third day that I knew. I wasn't allowed to tell the school of my friends that my parents were getting divorced. I and to lie to everyone and say that everything was fine at home. My parents also lied about their divorce to friends and family they tired to look like a happy couple all the time. I was sick of their lies!

My parents still lived together even though they were separated. It was crazy they would yell at each other all the time, eat separately, sleep separately. My mother even had a divorce party when the final papers came through after about 6 months. Then my mother got her share of the house and moved out and my dad lived in our old house. When his partners house was sold she moved in with him.

I never liked the look of my mother’s  boyfriend from day one. I don't think he cares about anyone but himself. I know he hated me as I couldn't speak a word of Welsh. He even threatened to grab my cellphone and put it into a glass of water because it kept going off all the time. He used my mothers house like a hotel. He went at 6am and then was back at 6pm expecting his dinner to be cooked for him. I never saw him have a shower or brush his teeth once and whenever I was watching TV he would always switch over the station without asking me. We only went out to public houses normally as that's the kind of food he enjoys as well as drinking till god knows what time.

One morning I was getting ready for school and my mother drove me as I missed the bus. She started driving an opposite direction and we turned up at a random house, she pulled over and said ‘Graham built that house'! I was late for school.

As you all know seatbelts are now the law. He never used a seatbelt and whenever I told him off for not wearing one my mother would tell me off. We were on vacation in Australia and they are very strict over there. I turned back and said out your seatbelt on or we will get arrested. My mother said ‘what's wrong with you' referring to me not him!!! Then my uncle said we all had to belt up and he listened. I'm pretty sure he drove my mothers car without being insured. He never told me he was insured and they are both terrible drivers.